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e-Book on Russian Women (Part 3)
Russian Women in the Workplace Below is a description of the Russian educational system and RW. When reading this it appears that there are many opportunities available to RW. In practice this is not true. Young girls have always been approached...
How to Structure Your Marriage
My wife N'omi is often asked if she doesn't believe in equality
for women, because some of the things she says sound odd to the
modern ear. But she always replies:
"Why should I give up superiority for mere equality? I have
worked at...
IS IT A GOOD IDEA TO ROOM WITH A FRIEND?
On the subject of moving in with a friend, I really don't have much experience. I still live with my folks. The way I see it, why move out when I have free housing and free food here at home? I'm only 18, so I'm still trying to save money. But if I...
Prenuptial Agreements
"Til death do us part" is still the language used in most weddings. Couples enter marriage with the hope of making a lifetime commitment. If this goal is not reached or if a spouse dies, the desire to be a couple is so ingrained that most will...
Trust in Marriage
A couple should trust each other in many ways. When they meet new people they are expected to be trusted not to wonder from a marriage. Not to have an affair or become involved with anyone else. Trust in marriage is also needed when keeping finances...
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Five Types of Marriages...Which Group Are You In?
There are a variety of different marriage "groups" out there. As
you discover your group, you will be better able to determine if
it's the group you want to be in for the rest of your life, or
if some adjustments are in order.
Convenience Marriage
When you got married, you were genuinely in love with your
spouse. However, as the years rolled by and your time was taken
up with jobs, children and other activities, you grew apart. Now
you are in a marriage of convenience.
You rarely see each other, and that's okay, but you do wish you
shared more than just the expenses of a household.
Just as it took time to grow apart, it will take time to grow
back together. Fear not, all is not lost if you are willing to
put forth the effort.
Start slowly by finding time to spend with each other and
rediscover how wonderful your spouse really is. Take an interest
in some of the things that interest your spouse, find some
common interests to develop with each other; just start spending
time together.
Look for opportunities to plan a special activity or date that
will help you get reacquainted.
Abusive Marriage
An abusive marriage is one where you are physically or
emotionally abuse by your spouse. In many cases, this is a
learned behavior from their childhood. Therefore, it can be
unlearned with a lot of counseling and love.
No one should be led to believe that they belong in this group,
everyone deserves a non-abusive marriage relationship.
Work on getting help for you and the abuser. If they are
unwilling, then you need to get help dealing with the situation.
It's important to realize that if the abuse continues, then your
only choice may be to leave the relationship.
Status Marriage
"Didn't she marry well?" was heard by many of the guests at your
wedding when you have a marriage for status. Yes, it's important
to marry a man that will provide for your needs. However, if you
marry someone strictly for money or status and have nothing else
in common...you'll soon find that money isn't everything.
What do you do if you fall in this group? It's never too late to
discover things about your spouse that will endear your heart.
Try to look for the good things your spouse does for your and
your children. Thank them for those good things and encourage
them to give of their time and not just things.
Take time to get to know your spouse and develop a relationship
that is based on deeper things.
Invisible Spouse Marriage
The invisible spouse
marriage is one where you or your spouse
are so busy with either work or outside activities, that you
never see each other except passing at the front door...if that.
There are some jobs that require a lot of time away from family.
There are also people who give more time and effort to their job
than their family.
This may be due to a false sense of loyalty to their employer or
their desire to be the number one guy/gal at work.
Additionally, there are many great causes out there to affiliate
your time and talents with. However, if it is as the expense of
your spouse and family, then it's too great a cost.
Whatever the reason for your invisible marriage, it's time to
stop and figure out how to reduce your outside time and increase
your together time.
At first it will seem like a great sacrifice. Yet as you work
together to figure out what things to streamline and what things
will help grow your marriage, you'll be surprised at the joy
that will return to your relationship.
Enduring Marriage
These are the marriages that we all dream of, the ones where you
see a sweet older couple hobbling down the sidewalk hand in hand
and smiling.
These marriages don't happen by accident, they happen by
positive, daily, consistent effort. It takes work to have an
enduring marriage.
A marriage that will endure financial hardship, illness,
troubled children, heart breaks and more is enduring because the
couple gets through all these difficult times by helping each
other through them.
Rather than saying, "Why me?", they say, "Why not me?" and work
together to get through the current challenge. They have the
ability to get through these difficult times because the have
built up a storehouse of happy memories, experiences and they
trust each other to the end.
They have laughed together, cried together, played together and
worked together. They know they can always count on each other
and that is what makes and enduring marriage endure.
This marriage is possible for each one of us, if we're willing
to put forth the daily, weekly, monthly and yearly effort.
So which group are you in...and do you want to stay there? It's
never too late to change groups...it just takes love, courage
and a willingness to try.
About the author:
Beth Young is the Senior Editor of the leading marriage advise
web site, MarriageAdvise.com. To download your free ebook
titled, "101 Marriage Secrets" visit http://www.MarrigeAdvice.com<
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Marriage - Wex |
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Alternatives to Marriage Project |
Provides support and information to people who choose not to marry, are unable to marry, or are making decisions about marriage. |
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Marriage Equality USA (index.shtml) |
Group solely committed to securing the right to civil marriage for same-sex couples. Related facts, membership information, and chapters. |
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Marriage in Ancient Rome |
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Judaism 101: Marriage |
Learn about the Jewish concept of finding your soul mate, Jewish weddings, the process of acquiring a spouse, and the marital relationship. |
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Professionally developed resources for practitioners and consumers of marriage and family therapy. Site also offers a search engine for finding a qualified ... |
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