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Are You A Victim Of FABS? Part 2
When you have a case of FABS, it may be hard to eradicate, but it is far from impossible. Fear, Anger, Blame and Shame may be different emotions, but they can all be gotten rid of in the same ways: First and foremost, it is very important to learn...
Are You A Victim Of FABS? Part One
Have you heard of the FABS? The FABS are quadruplets; they are not identical but they are very, very similar! The FABS are: Fear, Anger, Blame and Shame. This quartet love to arrive, uninvited, at people's houses and literally stay forever. They...
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The human being is endowed with ability. We have the capacity to do things. However, our ability is inherently limited. The human being is not almighty and so cannot accomplish all things. Because human capability is finite we find that a person...
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So you feel beaten up and bruised and you're ready to quit. You have no support system or the one you have is pathetically inadequate for the goals you've set. You're so tired that the couch is looking more and more inviting everyday. You...
How to Cope with Big Cities' Aggression
The biggest benefit of living in big cities is that there is
just too many of everything good: theatres, concert halls,
restaurants, stores, bookstores, cafés, libraries, associations,
offices, schools, diversity, parties, recreational places,...
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How to Cope with Big Cities' Aggression
The biggest benefit of living in big cities is that there is
just too many of everything good: theatres, concert halls,
restaurants, stores, bookstores, cafés, libraries, associations,
offices, schools, diversity, parties, recreational places, and
so on.
On the other side of the coin, the biggest problem of living in
big cities is that, of course, the city is too big. There is
also too many of everything not so good, i.e., things that can
potentially be an aggression to your soul: cars, workers,
people, constructions, lights, buses, taxis, subways,
telephones, people talking on telephones, noise, visual and air
pollution, billboards, stores, apartment buildings, roads--big
and small--criminals, gangs, traffic and traffic lights,
honking, tiny apartments, cockroaches and other pesky critters,
elevators, power lines, garbage, sewage, abandoned animals,
beggars, graffiti, and so on.
I used to live in one. For strange life circumstances, I don't
anymore, and I am tremendously grateful for that, because, every
time I go to a big city, my heart sinks at the sight of so much
aggression towards my soul. It is not that I don't like to face
reality, but there are realities that can be avoided altogether.
It is just like listening to the news or reading the newspapers:
what a difference are we going to make in view of so much
corruption, violence, and aggression in this world? I think our
power to make a difference is extremely limited, so, on my part,
I avoid it and do the little I can do, just like Mother Theresa
preached: do your small part.
Now, if you are living in a big city, how can you cope with
seeing so much
ugliness? Here are my suggestions:
1. Leave the city entirely. If I changed from being a big city
woman to being a small town one, so can you. I am no better or
braver than you. Of course, it requires some planning and
adjustment, but it is totally viable.
2. Make a heaven out of your dwellings. Paint the walls with a
smooth color; have flowers and plants to greet you when you get
home, hang posters or painting of beautiful art.
3. Wake up with soothing music, or music from nature. Forget the
news, at least upon waking up.
4. If you don't travel much and are good with animals, adopt a
couple of cats to embrace you in your quiet moments. As a bonus,
you will have a lot of fun enjoying their playing. It is
important to have a couple so they can keep company to each
other when you are at work.
5. Have a little corner of your house where you can set up a
little "refuge." Have a comfortable chair, some candles and
incense, pictures of people and places you love, or anything
else that refills your soul with the acknowledgement of the
wonder of your being.
Even though you don't notice a big difference in yourself, your
soul will thank you for it.
About the author:
Dr. Maria Moratto holds 5 degrees and is a life coach/educator.
She promotes courses and seminars in attracting abundance and
loving relationships, goal setting, diversity, time and stress
management, career delineation, values clarification, leisure,
college life, self-improvement, communication and learning
styles, spirituality, health and lifestyle. Visit her website at
http://www.rx4bliss.com . Sign up for a free e-zine.
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