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Choose To Be Happy, Now!
Choose Happiness....Now!
The older I get, the more I realize that ninety percent of life is about choices. Similarly, both the choice to be happy or unhappy is totally up to the individual. Sure, unforeseeable circumstances come along and rattle...
Sorrow and Closure
Is saying a ceremonious “good-bye” an act of closure? Is there really anything as closure in grief?
As we say goodbye to the Space Shuttle Columbia heroes, I feel such sadness and emptiness. Is saying a ceremonious “good-bye” an act of...
Victorious, Cancer Victor
“There it is again.” I muttered to myself, frustrated as I washed my arm.
Every morning for five or six days in the fall of 2003, I noticed rust-colored sticky stuff appearing on my left forearm and thigh. Finally, to my shock and...
Wise Dating Tips For the Single Mom
Single moms, more so than anyone, have to be exceedingly careful about the type of man they select as life-long partners. No sensible woman wants to be judged soley on her appearence or sex appeal, right? Moreoever, who would even want a man...
You Want to be a Stay-At-Home Parent
The subject of stay-at-home parenting is touchy, and emotionally tangled up in a maelstrom of emotion, advertising, society pressure, culture demands, and personal beliefs. When you have a mixture of that many ingredients swirling around, the result...
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Space Shuttle Columbia Tragedy
Today once again our hearts beat wounded with grief. As intelligent human beings we know that we can not control certain aspects of life
The Space Shuttle Columbia Tragedy
Today once again our hearts beat wounded with grief. As intelligent human beings we know that we can not control certain aspects of life. Yet it is still hard to understand the lack of control, the hopelessness and the helplessness of an event of this magnitude.
Tomorrow most of us will rise and shine to start our day. We will remember. We will listen to the news. We will go on with our life. For the families of the Space Shuttle Columbia, their day isn’t a day instead it is suspended numbness. They will be trying to cope with the changing puzzle their life has now become. For those loved ones and friends they will be faced with excepting the reality of their loss and experiencing their pain.
Physicists talk about the “butterfly effect”. It is said that if a butterfly flaps its wings in the Amazon jungle it will eventually change the weather in Sydney, Australia. They say that one butterfly flapping its wings changes atmospheric pressure and hence the ripple effect will actually change the weather around the world. What they don’t know is when the butterfly will flap its wings. They don’t know how far off
the ground it will be, they don’t know if another butterfly will flap at the same time or if many butterflies will flap. Each variable will change the effect. Grief is like the “butterfly effect”. Grief is very unique to each individual because of the different factors that are unique to you. Grief puts us in a fragile state. This fragile state combined with each person’s unique grief requires great patience and sensitivity for each other.
When we struggle to get through a tragedy that touches us to our core hopefully it will lead us to find higher and deeper engagement in life which will open us up to our deepest possibilities. May we have the insight and the compassion to reach out to each other and behold the tenderness of life.
Sherry Russell GMS Author of “Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief The Bright Side – Wings of Support
About the Author
Sherry is a Grief Management Specialist and author of "Conquering the Mysteries and Lies of Grief". She is presently working on her second book for children titled "The Life Adventures of Baby Boo and Zelda Lou". Sherry is on the Board of Advisors of The Bright Side - Wings of Support. The Bright Side is a non-profit online community providing support for anyone who is coping with emotional and/or mental difficulties.
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