|
|
Causes of failure to menstruate
Question : I HAVE had no menstruation for two years since I came to Melbourne to further my studies. In the first year, I was homesick, coping with studies, stress and a new environment. In the second year, I went on a diet.
Answer : THE absence...
Cialis: Backdoor To the Exuberance of Youth
Summary : Sex has been and will remain an integral part
of our life since the day Adam had the apple. Man has been
striving since ong to achieve a better performance in order to
satiate both his as well his partner's urge to sex. Albeit,
there...
Set Your Psychological Default Mode On Success
Life has a way of challenging us with the unexpected. A deal falls through at the last minute. An employee quits when we need him most. We lose our most important account without warning. No matter how hard we try to control life's circumstances,...
The Interplay of the Five Elements in Our Lives
As you are sitting here reading this allow your awareness to turn inwards into yourself. We are going to discuss the five elements and see how they interact in our lives. A good place to start is with a simple example. Just imagine that you are...
Understanding Obesity - How to Successfully Reduce Weight
THE CAUSES OF EXCESSIVE WEIGHT
If you eat more nutrients containing energy than you need for
your daily activities, for the internal processes of your body,
and for the burning process that maintains the body temperature,
the excessive...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Why, when you set goals, do you fail to reach them?
Why is it when you set goals for yourself most of them are not realised?
How is it that intelligent people, who take time out to refocus and decide what they want to do with the rest of their life, don't follow through?
How is that friendly outgoing people who makes friends easily and are really good fun to be with find it difficult to keep to their own goals?
How is it that people who hold down difficult and stressful jobs find it difficult to break habits that cause them so much physical, psychological and social discomfort?
How is it that even though you buy numerous self help books. Even though you understand all the facts and issues you still can't stick to your goal?
So what is it?
What is it that bright, capable people can't grasp?
What's the answer?
You are working from the wrong premise. You have got the whole message the wrong way round. You are coming at the problem via the back door rather than walking straight in the front.
THIS IS THE PROBLEM
Whenever you work on goals, you are working on achieving some external result. Whether it be achieving end of month/ quarter/ year figures, stopping smoking, losing weight or starting a business.
When you chase goals like these, when you come from the place of what you are trying to achieve is external from you, you gradually switch off. Over time you catch yourself setting the goals but putting less and less effort into achieving them. Why? Because when you have achieved it, what do you do then? Do it again?
In a nutshell most of us have a goal habit. We aim at achieving these external things year on year and when we have reached them we are labelled a success. The problem is the feelings of happiness and contentment don't last. That's why we're off again.
ANOTHER WAY
Instead of focussing on the end. Instead of focussing on how much weight you want to lose. How much money you want to earn. How much……… you want. It's not a question of inspiration, it's a question of intuition. . Focus on you. Yes YOU
Start to look at yourself.
Why are you setting these goals in the first place?
What are trying to achieve?
Most of us want to be happy. To feel fulfilled. To achieve peace of mind.
To feel successful. The trouble is that when you achieve your goals, you get a sense of success, fulfilment, happiness for a short time and then you're off again. Another year another set of goals.
Hence it is not the achievement of a goal that is important but the achievement of the essence of the goal. The happiness. The fulfilment. The peace of mind.
But all of these things are inside you. You already have them. They've just got buried somewhere and need to be acknowledged.
/>
As Dean Ornish Professor of Medicine at UCSF, USA stated at a recent conference in Monterey,
"Happiness is not to be pursued it's there already
until we disturb it."
You don't need external goals to find them you just need to refocus.
As Eykis says In Wayne Dyer's book, Gifts From Eykis:
"There is no way to happiness.
Happiness is the way."
In other words, we human beings, are like mirrors. We are happier, more contented and more fulfilled when our external results match our internal goals. In other words when we are at one with what we are doing. When our outside world and our inside world are interconnected.
You are always successful when you follow the inner voice. When you follow your intuition. When you follow your spirit. When you tap into your potential.
You are out of balance when you set outer goals that are contrary to your inner being. How do you know you are out of balance? You feel uncomfortable and you find it difficult to achieve your goals.
THE QUESTION NOW IS;
What is your inner voice saying to you?
There is no mistaking the correct goals to set yourself because you feel it is right. A light goes on inside. You feel passionate about what you have to do. You don't want to stop. You enjoy everything about it. You have found your ‘in zone'. You feel really comfortable. You have now created the opportunity for happiness to reveal itself because happiness is to be found when you are flowing naturally rather than in pursuing external objectives.
When you find that what you want is the same as what you need. When you find something you really love doing until it hurts. When you are passionate about something you cannot stop yourself from doing it. You keep doing it because you, the creator are happy. It makes you feel good.
Eating two lettuce leaves in order to lose weight to please someone else does NOT make you passionate to lose weight.
The secret is to focus on YOU. Really work on what it is you want. Dig deep inside and find your unique talent. Your potential.
Take the time. Have the patience.
And very important don't talk yourself out of it.
Don't discourage yourself.
And keep away from people that enjoy discouraging you.
It may take longer than you think it ought. But you will get what you want.
Release your unstoppable passion. Now.
Good Luck
Graham and Julie
www.desktop-meditation.com
To improve your intuition, initiative and energy levels. Please go to:
www.desktop-meditation.com It's free.
Copyright graham - http://www.desktop-meditation.com
|
|
|
|
|
Learning Meditation Home Page |
Introduction to the basics of meditation and the reduction of stress. |
www.learningmeditation.com |
  |
Meditation Room |
Choose freely and feel free to perform more than one meditation. ... Allow some time for your meditation. These meditations last from 3 - 10 minutes. ... |
www.learningmeditation.com |
  |
Meditation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia |
An introduction to different traditions, forms, techniques, and benefits. Includes links to other resources. |
en.wikipedia.org |
  |
World Wide Online Meditation Center |
Contains colorful, clear, concise meditation instruction on a variety of meditation methods from various spiritual teachings, plus tranquil meditation tapes ... |
www.meditationcenter.com |
  |
The Transcendental Meditation (TM) Program - Official website. How ... |
Meditation validated by over 600 scientific studies. The best meditation against stress. Online video! Personal instruction and lifetime follow-up. |
www.tm.org |
  |
Vipassana Meditation Website |
Homepage of the organization which offers Vipassana Meditation courses as taught by SN Goenka. |
www.dhamma.org |
  |
Welcome to Meditation Mount |
Meditation training programs and group meditation as a service to humanity. Worldwide organization based in Ojai, California. |
www.meditation.com |
  |
Guided meditations on mindfulness, peace, the 23rd Psalm, the way ... |
Come into the present moment with this 10-minute mindfulness meditation narrated by ... Experience a flow of positive energy with this meditation on peace ... |
www.beliefnet.com |
  |
Meditation Station Presented By The Meditation Society Of America |
Meditation Society of America's web site. Dedicated to sharing meditation techniques and concepts from all traditions. |
www.meditationsociety.com |
  |
Wildmind | Learn Meditation Online |
Wildmind provides a complete guide to simple meditation techniques. |
www.wildmind.org |
  |
Meditation |
An article By Dr Tom J. Chalko explaining the process and stressing the need for a spiritual teacher. |
www.thiaoouba.com |
  |
Free Learn to Meditate, online meditation - Meditation Australia. |
Details of activities, events, and classes in Wollongong University, Australia. Also offer a free online Meditation course. |
meditation.org.au |
  |
Meditation, Home, what is meditation, types of meditation ... |
Meditation Meditation is an alternative therapy. It can be broadly classified under the mind-body medicine. More and more doctors are prescribing meditation ... |
1stholistic.com |
  |
Sivananda Yoga - Meditation |
Introduction to the Official Web site of the Internationa Sivananda Yoga Vedanta Centers. Lots of information on Jnana Yoga, Bhakti Yoga, Raja Yoga, ... |
www.sivananda.org |
  |
Stress Reducers: Articles index |
yellow arrow button, Choose a Virtual Meditation Slide Show for Your ... yellow arrow button, Meditation and Relaxation: 20 Minutes A Day Can Make A ... |
www.selfhelpmagazine.com |
  |
Zen Mountain Monastery: Zen Meditation Instructions |
Detailed instructions from Zen Mountain Monastery on how to practice Zen meditation. |
www.mro.org |
  |
Meditation and concentration |
meditation concentration ability. ... Online fire meditation use it and develop concentration ability; Online flash meditation look at the screen and ajust ... |
www.ababasoft.com |
  |
Siddha Yoga path - Gurumayi - Swami Muktananda founder |
Under the guidance and teachings of Gurumayi Chidvilasananda, Siddha Yoga meditation students embrace the spiritual practices of yoga. |
www.siddhayoga.org |
  |
Meditation Handbook |
Survey of seven meditation techniques for beginners. |
home.att.net |
  |
Healing Music|Meditation Music|Self Help products |
Healing Products offers healing music for your Mind, Body & Soul at low prices. Use sound and music to heal and relax. |
www.healingproducts.com |
  |
|